| Location | Great Lumley |
| Age | 19 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 7/1985 |
| Date of Death | 3/2005 |
| Visitors | 3,680 since 28/05/2008 |
| Creator |
Daniel James O'Hare left on 28th March 2005. 19, from Great Lumley. Missed terribly by his mam,
dad, his brothers, Matthew & Ben. Also Dearly Dearly missed by his Cousin Sarah, who he looked
upon as a little Sister.
A special grandson, nephew, cousin and friend to many. We still do not know why you chose to leave
us. We only know that our hearts are empty and the emptiness we feel will never go. We miss you so
very very much. We miss your laughter, and the laughter you gave other people. You had so much
more to achieve and so much more to do in life. If only you had chosen not to leave us! We know
now there were games being played with your emotions, but those people were never ever what you
thought they would be & recovered & bounced back very very quickly!!! If only you could have seen
what we see now, we know things could have been so different and you would have met that special
someonel, someone who loved you for being you & who didn,t want to hurt you but wanted to show you
love.
You see, Dan took his own life, just a happy normal lad, with everything to live for. No signs, no
nothing. We blame ourselves, a normal reaction I am told from those who have loved ones the same
way. But I do truly believe as his mother, I should have known there was something wrong, but I
didn't and I am paying every day of my life for that mistake. People say what are the signs? If
there were signs, I wouldn't be sitting here writing this now. I just know in my heart if only he
had talked to someone that cared about him we may not be in this situation. To anyone who has lost a
loved one reading this you may feel angry that my son had choices, when your loved one didn't, I
understand that anger. We didnt have any choices. We set up a campaign with Samaritans to raise
awarness with suicide & raised nearly £50,000 for the charity. We are now in the process of
starting up our own charity offering support to those effected by suicide, and working on
prevention. If you have been effected by suicide please if you want to drop me a line. It sometime
helps to speak to someone who is going throught the same.
We would give lay down our lives to have another minute with you and hold you once more we are so
sorry for anyhting we did that ever hurt you, we miss you so very much Dan, and will spend the rest
of every day of our lives wishing you were here, to make things ok again. OK has gone, it left when
you left. WE will love you forever & ever & ever . WE WILL NEVER STOP LOVING YOU & WILL NEVER
FORGET YOU. Till we Meet again. GOODNIGHT GODBLESS LOVE YOU.
TO ANYBODY WHO IS READING THIS WHO HAS SUFFERED AT THE HANDS OF SUICIDE. PLEASE DON'T THINK YOUR ON
YOUR OWN. YOU HAVE A TOUGH TIME WHEN YOU HAVE LOST THE ONE YOU LOVE, BUT PLEASE DO NOT SUFFER IN
SILENCE. IF YOU FEEL IT WOULD HELP TO TALK TO SOMEONE WHO HAS GONE THROUGH THE SAME, PLEASE DROP
ME A LINE, DON'T BE AFRAID PLEASE. WE CAN GET THROUGH THIS SUPPORTING EACH OTHER. TO ALL THE
LOVELY GTS FRIENDS WHO HAVE SUPPORTED ME & MY FAMILY THROUGHOUT THE YEAR, THANK YOU & YOU WILL BE IN
MY THOUGHTS ON THE DAY. LOVE SHIRLEYXXXX REMEMBER IF U CARE SHARE! CHECKOUT OUR WEBSITE
WWW.IFUCARESHARE.CO.UK
Love & Miss you so Very Much.
Where's the year gone, its slipped away
The hours seem to blur, night into day
They say it gets easier as the months pass by,
why then when he's mentioned, do tears sting my eye's
Such a "Goodlooking boy", the world at his feet,
places to see, people to meet.
It all got too much, nothing went right,
he couldn,t find the strength to stay here and fight.
His brothers cried "Why did he go,
didn't he know we loved him so?".
If he could see the grief of his friends,
he wouldn't have wanted his life to end.
But that was his choice when all's said and done,
But oh how I miss "my goodlooking Son"
Linda Crudgington - January 2004
Love & miss you always Son. Shirls Pops Workid & Benji. Bomber & OZxx
♥ You are invited to Jim Hill (BUFF) Heavenly
Birthday Party on Tuesday 13th October ♥
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♥ Jim will be celebrating his 44th birthday in heaven,There will be free booze,food & karoke. Please join him there,with all the rest of the angel friends.xxxxx
Another Day
Dan
Another Bank Holiday without you. The Bank holidays are reminders of the horror of Easter Monday . Miss you so very much till we meet again my beautiful boy. Love you. Shirlsssssssxxxxxxxmam
LOVE
IF LOVE COULD BRING YOU HOME AGAIN
YOU WOULD BE BY YOUR LOVED ONES SIDE
BECAUSE THERE HEARTS ARE BREAKING
FOR THE LOVE THEY HAVE INSIDE
THEY NEVER ASK FOR MUCH
ALL THEY WANT IS TO HOLD YOU
AND KEEP YOU BY THERE SIDE
BUT LIFE GOES ON WITHOUT YOU
IN OUR HEART YOU WILL STAY FOREVER
TILL THE DAY WE ARE TOGETHER
AND THEN THE TEARS WILL GO AWAY
XxXxXxX
Birthday I Wish You Were Here
I want to give you wishes
to celebrate this day
To share in the occasion
that would be your birthday.
I want to give you love
from the bottom of my heart
And show the endless devotion
you always did impart.
I want to give you happiness
and a smile for your face
to hear you chuckle once again
and feel your warm embrace.
I want to give you so much joy
more than you could know
To make you proud of me now,
and all that you bestowed.
I want to give you memories
of all our years together
The fun times and all we shared
will be in my heart forever.
I want to give you this special gift
wrapped only in my love
And send it on a wishing star
to the Heavens above.
I want to give you all these things
with tender loving care
But since you've been gone for four years
I will send them in a prayer.
But most all, I want to give you
a great big hug today
And celebrate with love to share ~
to Dan, Happy Birthday
24TH BIRTHDAY WITH ALL OUR LOVE FOREVER & EVER. SHIRLS, POPS, WORKID N BENJI & BOMBER & OZ.XXXXXXXXXXXXX
27TH MAY 2009
♥
As The Sun Came Up This Morning
I Watched You There Below
Your Hearts Seemed Oh So Heavy
But There’s Something You Should Know
♥
I’m Not Gone So Don’t Worry
I’m Just A Step Ahead
And I’m With You Every Single Day
As You Rise Up From Your Bed
♥
I Am The Sun That Warms You
I Am The Moon’s Soft Glow
I Am The Stars That Twinkle
And Light Your Path Below
♥
So When At Times You Miss Me
Just Look For Me I’m There
For You Cannot Hide My Spirit
It Is With You Everywhere.
♥
☆ LOVE JUDE. X ☆
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A butterfly came floating by
and i thought i knew its face
it landed on my shoulder
and spread its wings of lace
i looked and saw it smiling
as it winked and flew away
i'm sure i heard it whisper
we will meet again one day.
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ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS & PRAYERS XOXOXO
17TH MAY 2009
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PEACEFUL SUNDAY, IN
HEAVEN..GOD BLESS. ♥ x ♥
15TH MAY 2009
★ Favourite Star of Mine. ★
Far above in that sky,
Is a small star of mine,
Star where life exists,
That star shines brighter then light.
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It is the star of fascination for me,
It is the star of my fantasy,
It is the star of my dreams,
It is the star that belongs to me.
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A star that is all alone,
A star that is full of love,
A star where I have to reach,
A star of my dreams.
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It is the star that lies beyond the sun,
It is the star of ultimate truth,
It is star of love and peace,
It is star where my soul lives.
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It is the one to call me,
It is the one to attract me,
It is the one I’ll love to see,
It is the one I have to reach.
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LOVE JUDE. X X
★ Anurag Kumar ★
To honour you
To honour you, I get up everyday and take a breath
And start another day without you in it.
To honour you, I laugh and love with those who knew your smile
and the way your eyes twinkled with mischief and secret knowledge
To honour you, I take the time to appreciate everyone I love
I know now there is no guarantee of days or hours spent in their presence.
To honour you I listen to music you would have liked
And sing at the tope of my lungs, with the windows rolled down.
To honour you I take chances, say what I feel hold nothing back
Risk making a fool of myself, dance every dance.
You were my light, my heart, my gift of love, from the very highest source.
So everyday, I vow to make a difference, share a smile, live, laugh and love.
Now I live for both of us, so all I do, I do to honour you.....
Love and God Bless.
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