| Location | Great Lumley |
| Age | 19 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 7/1985 |
| Date of Death | 3/2005 |
| Visitors | 7,663 since 28/05/2008 |
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Daniel James O'Hare left on 28th March 2005. 19, from Great Lumley. Missed terribly by his mam, dad, his brothers, Matthew & Ben . Also Dearly Dearly missed by his Cousin Sarah, who he looked upon as a little Sister, & sadly missed by his little bro Scott.
A special grandson, nephew, cousin and friend to many. We still do not know why you chose to leave us. We only know that our hearts are empty and the emptiness we feel will never go. We miss you so very very much. We miss your laughter, and the laughter you gave other people. You had so much more to achieve and so much more to do in life. If only you had chosen not to leave us! We know now there were games being played with your emotions, but those people were never ever what you thought they would be & recovered & bounced back very very quickly!!! If only you could have seen what we see now, we know things could have been so different and you would have met that special someonel, someone who loved you for being you & who didn,t want to hurt you but wanted to show you love.
You see, Dan took his own life, just a happy normal lad, with everything to live for. No signs, no nothing. We blame ourselves, a normal reaction I am told from those who have loved ones the same way. But I do truly believe as his mother, I should have known there was something wrong, but I didn't and I am paying every day of my life for that mistake. People say what are the signs? If there were signs, I wouldn't be sitting here writing this now. I just know in my heart if only he had talked to someone that cared about him we may not be in this situation. To anyone who has lost a loved one reading this you may feel angry that my son had choices, when your loved one didn't, I understand that anger. We didnt have any choices. If you have been effected by suicide please if you want to drop me a line. It sometime helps to speak to someone who is going throught the same.
We would give lay down our lives to have another minute with you and hold you once more we are so sorry for anyhting we did that ever hurt you, we miss you so very much Dan, and will spend the rest of every day of our lives wishing you were here, to make things ok again. OK has gone, it left when you left. WE will love you forever & ever & ever . WE WILL NEVER STOP LOVING YOU & WILL NEVER FORGET YOU. Till we Meet again. GOODNIGHT GODBLESS LOVE YOU.
TO ANYBODY WHO IS READING THIS WHO HAS SUFFERED AT THE HANDS OF SUICIDE. PLEASE DON'T THINK YOUR ON YOUR OWN. YOU HAVE A TOUGH TIME WHEN YOU HAVE LOST THE ONE YOU LOVE, BUT PLEASE DO NOT SUFFER IN SILENCE. IF YOU FEEL IT WOULD HELP TO TALK TO SOMEONE WHO HAS GONE THROUGH THE SAME, PLEASE DROP ME A LINE, DON'T BE AFRAID PLEASE. WE CAN GET THROUGH THIS SUPPORTING EACH OTHER. TO ALL THE LOVELY GTS FRIENDS WHO HAVE SUPPORTED ME & MY FAMILY THROUGHOUT THE YEAR, THANK YOU & YOU WILL BE IN MY THOUGHTS ON THE DAY. LOVE SHIRLEYXXXX REMEMBER IF U CARE SHARE! CHECKOUT OUR WEBSITE WWW.IFUCARESHARE.CO.UK
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Remember Me With Love
My days are blue without you
I'm feeling so much pain
Even though I know one day
We will meet again
Still I long to see your smiling face
And long to hold you near
I try to smile when I remember you
But often shed a tear
The happy memories I have of you
They will help me get through
I'm so grateful for the years we had
and those sweet memories of you.
Remember me with love
The way I remember you
Until one day we meet again
Then I'll never again feel blue.
copyright Ingrid Aspey 9/11/11
♥*♥ With Love ♥*♥
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I Am With You Always
As you hold me close in memory
Even though we are apart
My spirit will live on
There within your heart
I am with you always
When you lean on trusted friends
And their caring hugs enfold you
Within their loving arms
I'll be there to hold you
I am with you always
And beyond the far horizon
When we'll finally be together
Where love will be eternal
And life will last forever
I am with you always
Bible quote, anon
Let Memories Surround You
Feel no guilt in laughter,
For they know how much you care.
Feel no sorrow in a smile
That they're not here to share.
You cannot grieve forever--
They would not want you to.
They'd hope that you would carry on
The way you always do.
So talk about the good times
And the ways you showed you cared,
The days you spent together,
All the happiness you shared.
Let memories surround you;
A word someone may say
Will suddenly recapture
A time, an hour, a day,
That brings them back as clearly
As though they were still here,
And fills you with the feelings
That they are always near.
For if you keep those moments,
You will never be apart,
And they will live forever....
Locked safe within your heart.love maureen x
~Anne Richardson~
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On the wings of this white dove
I'll set your spirit free.
Up into the big deep sky,
to heaven, where you'll be.
I know God has a plan for us,
he wants us by his side.
But it is hard to understand
when we are left behind.
Little dove, help lift our hearts
as we watch you go,
God is there if we just ask,
because He loves us so.
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A verse shared from Dannys site,with thanx.x
Don't grieve for me,
for now I'm free,
I'm following the path God has laid you see.
I took his hand when I heard his call.
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day
To laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way
I found the peace at the close of day.
If my parting has left a void
Then fill it with remembered joys-
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss
Oh yes, these things I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full I savored much,
Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief
Lift up your hearts, and peace to thee-
God wanted me now,he set me free.
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NO FOOTPRINTS.
I've listened to the "footprints" poem
a million times or more.
Of how when only one set shows
upon the sandy shore.
It is the Lord carrying us
and taking on our load.
And His are the only set
of footprints that showed.
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But what if when we look
there are no footprints to be found?
All we see is plain and simple
sand upon the ground.
No imprints showing that our Lord
is carrying us through life.
Helping us when we feel
we cannot handle all this strife.
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Where is my Lord now that I've fallen
and can't seem to get back up?
So tired and lonely trying to deal
with what seems an overflowing cup.
Where are those footprints in the sand
to tell me He's right there?
Helping me with problems and
showing that He really does care.
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Does He have favourites, OH NO,
please tell me that's not so!
By why does life seem easier
for some people that I know?
And sometimes I just scream out loud
although it seems in vain,
But often it gets harder each day
to deal with all this pain.
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And then it dawned on me as I realize
how simple could it be.
I wonder why I was so blind
that I truly did not see.
It must have been a lightning bolt
that one day gave me light,
Cause out of the clear blue sky,
I finally regained my sight.
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I saw a fluffy white cloud
shaped like an Angel dear.
That helped me to understand
and see things oh so clear,
That when I saw no footprints
and so often wondered why,
My Lord carried me on Angel wings,
when He decided to fly.
~Author Unknown~
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